How to use Monday affirmations
- Start on Sunday night. If the week is already on your mind, read the “For Monday dread” lines before bed, then write down the first thing you’ll do on Monday so you don’t have to hold it overnight.
- Pick two or three for the morning. Say them while the kettle boils or on the way to work: one for how you want to feel, one for what you’ll do.
- Name this week’s three priorities. Write them down, then start on one before you open your messages.
- Put something good in Monday. If you get to choose, give Monday something you enjoy too: a good lunch, a call with a friend, a walk after work.
Why Monday is a good day to start
There’s a reason so many plans begin on a Monday. Researchers who studied what they called the “fresh start effect” found that Google searches for the word “diet”, gym visits and commitments to personal goals all rose after natural markers in time, including the start of a new week, month or year (Dai, Milkman & Riis, 2014). Their explanation is that these markers put past slip-ups in a previous chapter and help people see the bigger picture, which makes a new effort feel worth trying.
You can use this on purpose. Choose one small thing to begin this Monday, and let the “A fresh start” lines remind you why. Keep it small: treat the fresh start as a nudge, not a demand to become a new person by Friday. And if this Monday doesn’t go to plan, there’s another one next week.
When Monday brings dread
Plenty of people feel a pull of dread on Monday morning, and it doesn’t mean the week will be bad. The lines in “For Monday dread” don’t argue with the feeling. They make the week smaller: one day, one task, one email.
If the dread is about something specific, such as a hard meeting or a difficult colleague, write a line for that exact moment, like “I can walk into the 10 o’clock meeting and say what I prepared.” Specific lines tend to be easier to believe than general ones.
If Monday dread is part of a low mood that doesn’t lift on most days, it may be about more than Mondays. Affirmations aren’t a replacement for care, and talking to a doctor or counselor can help. If you’re struggling or thinking about harming yourself, you can call or text 988 in the US (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline), or find a helpline in your country at findahelpline.com.
For the night before, try Sunday affirmations. For the rest of the week, there are lists for Tuesday through Friday, and a general list of daily affirmations.